Guides

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Holiday Host Gift Ideas: What to Actually Bring
One rule covers most of it: do not create work for the person with the least time in the building. What to bring to Thanksgiving, Christmas dinner and a weekend... Read more...
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Gift Ideas for Someone Who Has Everything
Stop shopping for a better product. Six angles that work on the person who already owns everything, the five gifts to avoid, and why the occasion beats the object every... Read more...
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Soy Wax vs Paraffin: An Honest Comparison
We sell soy blend candles, so here is where paraffin wins. Burn time, scent throw, cost, what soy blend actually means, and a straight look at the evidence behind the... Read more...
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How to Burn a Candle Properly (and Avoid Tunneling)
The first burn decides everything. Wick trimming, the four-hour rule, how to fix a tunneled candle, and the fire safety guidance from the National Candle Association and the US Fire... Read more...
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What to Write in a Card With a Sympathy Candle
Four rules and about thirty lines you can copy, sorted by situation: someone you knew, someone you did not, a coworker, a pet, a pregnancy loss, and the anniversary nobody... Read more...
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What to Send Instead of Flowers for Sympathy
Flowers arrive four bunches at a time and are gone in a week. Here is what else to send after a death, when to send it, which losses get overlooked... Read more...